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Pregnant, Homeless and HIV-positive

In 2003, I was pregnant, homeless, and HIV-positive. But worst of all, I felt completely helpless and had nowhere to turn for help. I received my diagnosis after my senior year of high school. In college, I thought I might be pregnant. I went to

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4 Lies Stopping You From Getting Tested for HIV

With a black shirt that read, “HAVING SEX?” in bold, pink letters, I walked through the streets of Washington DC, telling people the importance of getting tested for HIV and pointing them in the direction of a van where they could get tested for free.

Let’s Talk About Vulvas and Vaginas 

Not to sound cliché, but every person with a vulva has their own unique body parts. It’s easy to feel likeeverybody else must have a hair-free, smell-free, and tightly packaged WAP but that’s not the case.Today I want to talk about what’s “normal” when it

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Twerking as Healing Praxis for Black Women and Femmes

What is twerking? The rhythmic gyration, popping, rolling, whining of the hips can be found throughout history used in ceremonies, celebrations, recreation, and entertainment. I am an avid twerker. I used to pop my hips and tootsie roll in the 90s and early 2000s; and

Cultivating Intimacy After Baby

Having a child changes your life completely. You and your family have to get used to a whole new way of living. In one day, you can experience the painful physical effects of childbirth, an emotional roller coaster of tears and joy, and bone-deep exhaustion.